Not An Island Onto Our Selves

     Two things have occurred in the last couple of days that have influenced me to write this blog; my aunts 101st birthday, and a Facebook posting from friend. Both bringing me to metaphysical reflection.

     Just yesterday my wife and I attended my Aunt Ruth`s 101st Birthday at the nursing home where she resides. Celebrating my aunts birthday were my other aunts, cousins and their spouses, my mom, brother and his wife, and others. My Cousin Dorothy gave special and meaningful words honoring our aunt, and then called upon my aunt`s sister, cousins, each of her nieces and nephews to come and say a few words. This was a happy and joyous time, and I look forward to the holidays for more of the same.

     Drummer and my Facebook friend RJ Spangler posted on Facebook what I consider one of the best post I have read on Facebook. RJ posted - "I was reminded today that I don`t do this all by myself. We musicians depend on those that care about the music and about us. Friends, family, music lovers, all that I can say is thank you so much". I was almost brought to tears when I read this, because he is right.

     I think the point I am trying to make is that people are supporting us. Of course, I as a saxophonist have spent countless hours studying and practicing, going to school and taking lessons, attending jam sessions, making musical and professional connections, and in general "paying my dues" as a musician, and this can be said to at least the majority of us as musicians. Spangler is absolutely correct, we don`t do this by ourselves. We are joined by other musicians on stage with a shared experience of making and creating music, and while doing so we are joined by people like my Wife Patricia who helps me sell CDs, and assist in other capacities to handle the business of music when I am on stage. When I look into the audience I see my Cousin Dorothy, my Aunt Jeannie, my Mother Sarah, and my Sister-in-law Zandra, and that`s only to mention some of my family, because many more of my relatives have been in that audience while I`m on stage playing saxophone and flute. It is also a blessing to have friends such as Lesley and Vance, and students such as Ms. Clifton and Attorney Brown supporting by attending my performances. Also present in my audience are fans from the Detroit area, and sponsors such as J.D. Knox, Inc. That`s just my support and networking system, because other musicians have their support system and network too.

     We are supported and cared by those who love us enough to come-out and be apart of what we love; our music. I was reminded of that in the presence of my relatives at my aunt`s 101 birthday with the joyful discussions and meal we shared. RJ Spangler`s words have given me something to really reflect upon. Thank you to all who have come-out to support me and my art, and be able to make a living doing what I love.